Monday, November 3, 2008
Happy IVGLDSW Day!
Today is International Very Good Looking, Damn Smart Woman's Day, so please send this message to someone you think fits this description. Please do not send it back to me as I have already received it from a Very Good Looking, Damn Smart Woman!
To the Girls. Inside every older person is a younger person -- wondering what the hell happened. - Cora Harvey Armstrong-
The hardest years in life are those between ten and seventy.-Helen Hayes (at 73)-
I refuse to think of them as chin hairs. I think of them as stray eyebrows.- Janette Barber-
My second favorite household chore is ironing. My first one being -- hitting my head on the top bunk bed until I faint. - Erma Bombeck -
Old age ain't no place for sissies ..-Bette Davis-
If you can't be a good example -- then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.-Catherine-
I'm not going to vacuum 'til Sears makes one you can ride on. - Roseanne Barr-
Behind every successful man is a surprised woman. - Maryon Pearson-
Send this to five bright women you know and make their day.
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Chirstmas Gift Pressure
My friend told me how to get a free website for personal use. I did and it works.
Blogs are fun but the website allows an even wider opportunity for growth. I collect all my email addresses and send out information to every one at once. I also show case my talent for ink paintings of pets.
So I am giving the kids free personal websites.
I use http://www.gotoerins.com/new370510.html for the websites. It is easy to use.
I gave my sister a personal website for her birthday and she uses it to sell home made folk dolls.
I hope to have a happy holiday by creating the personal web sites for my children!
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Money Woes!
The costs of rooms in downtown Indianapolis leaves me wondering how anyone can afford to travel and have a nice time without leaving broke. My Marines want to spend $89.00 not $149.00. I have to keep looking and hope to find a decent price.
Indianapolis will host the Super Bowl in 2011 and the rooms will be out of sight if not already booked.
I hope to find a nice hotel today. Indianapolis has so many wonderful places to visit and a neat new airport.
The VMB 433 met in Indianapolis once and loved it!
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Economy Blues
I am an upbeat person. Very little keeps me unhappy for a long time. But for 10 days my outlook on the economy has left me very BLUE!
How do we look beyond the sad fact that the faith the nation placed in George W. Bush was a waste. He lead us down a declining path. What with a war and money wasted I have turned very very BLUE!
It seems as though the nation is turning BLUE too.
Blue could be good if this mess gets cleared and we recover our sense of well being.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Saving Money

Monday, September 29, 2008
Social Security and the BAILOUT?

Keep in mind form 521 of Social Security if you need to reapply in order to get larger payouts. I may do this in the near future before the 521 plan goes away.
The new administration may make some changes to Social Security and the puzzle is to know what to do before the changes occur.
These days are truly annoying for those of us who saved and planned for retirement. Social Security is the one hope we have relied on for the future.
Saturday, September 27, 2008
eBay Link!
I am happy because then there may be more hits on my listings and sales will pick up!
EBay works and I will do this effort the rest of my life.
EBay levels the selling field. If you act with a great deal of respect for each buyer, business will be a success.
See the my listings on eBay tab. A click on it brings you to my about me page in eBay.
Friday, September 26, 2008
I am a small business
The Internet is my only touch with the rest of the world. I am happy that I have eBay on which to sell products from wholesalers. I use them as drop shippers. I pick a product and put it on eBay. I have no product in my house. When I sell an item, I get paid and then order the item from my drop shipper. They send the product out to my customer.
This is a nice way to do business without owning inventory or a brick and mortar store.
With the slow economy, it takes longer to sell an item. This is of course not as important to me since my overhead does not change.
With the holiday season coming up, I offer music instruments at a very low margin. I am currently repricing my instruments and including free shipping. Then the true cost to the customer is obvious to them.
I carry a great selection of guitars both electric and acoustic on eBay.
I also offer a FREE website at http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html These web sites are great for starting a business, giving as gifts or using for personal fun.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Retirement Woes
I am not pleased with Bush. I am not the core 27% who love him. This is a huge mess but we must rescue the bad mortgage bundles and save the country.
I sure hope that the oversight on this deal is strong and firm.
I can not believe that it has come to this over night. I am sure that these Bush folks were aware of this for a while and waited to make the bail out the only possible out come.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Social Security
I want to remind everyone about the form 521 of the Social Security program.
In the end Social Security may be all that is left of a retirement plan. I am not sure that we should give the government all of that money without regulations.
Social Security must be saved. Vote November 4.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Education Suggestion "The Computer Edge"
Education Suggestion “The Computer Edge”
When you look at a college classroom, every student has a laptop computer with him or her. By the time a student gets to college, they have become computer literate.
How about in high school? Not every family has a home computer. Just look at the number of public computers at libraries or chat rooms. Most high schools have some computer classes and some computers for students to use.
In most grade schools, computer use depends upon a family’s ability to supply one at home. Watching children use a computer as though it is no big deal is amazing to generations that are still having computer issues.
A head start education program needs to include computer education. The world today lives on the Internet. The edge a computer gives a child is hard to measure. The gap between the haves using a computer and the have nots no computer use can only grow.
The education suggestion is to give the computer edge to the children in a head start program. This would not be difficult by using one of the most generous men in our history. Bill Gates and his wife have a foundation with money to spend. Also, Eli Broad and his wife have a foundation for education. Other foundations could also be solicited.
Bill Gates could design the computer. Several things need to be included to make this work.
1. Make the laptop steal proof
2.Use a fingerprint or such the only way to open the computer
3.Make the laptop color distinctive-red, white and blue
4.Mark the laptop-Do not steal no resale value
5. Have a special Internet access with only one channel-i.e. .cft computers for tots,
We have toys for tots and coats for tots, now we can have computers for tots.
6. All of the programs will be educational and games that encourage learning
7. To get a .cft a website address will have to pass a screening test
8. Have screens on all .cft sites for known bad words etc.
9. Put a GPS in the computer as it is made
10.Make the system easy to use
This is idea is out side of the box that everyone talks about but cannot seem to propose.
Computers for Tots it will work.
Computers for Tots will level the playing field.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Holiday Presents-Free Personal Websites!
My friend told me how to get a free website for personal use. I did and it works. Blogs are fun but the website allows an even wider opportunity for growth. I collect all my email addresses and send out information to every one at once. I also show case my talent for ink paintings of pets.
So I am giving the kids free personal websites. I use http://www.gotoerins.com/new370510.html for the websites. It is easy to use.
I gave my sister a personal website for her birthday and she uses it to sell home made folk dolls.
I hope to have a happy holiday by creating the personal web sites for my children!
Friday, September 5, 2008
Election Day 60 days away
Change could happen in the way elections are run.
I think there should be one primary day, in August. Then 3 debates in September and October and then the election in November. Most folks only need a few days to make up their minds.
Change, change and change. That is what I want for this system.
Change the times, change the dates and change the leaders.
This year change will happen one of two ways. I vote for change with a younger man and older man. The thought of the old man and the young woman is scary. McCain does not have perfect health. That young lady leading the government is difficult to understand. In 10 years with more experience she may be better than sliced bread. But not now.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Election 2008
IRA's and 401 K's are now the rule. The problem is that with rising gas and grocery prices, the inflation is eating into the comfort on which I had planned. As I draw social security, the funds do not cover my expenses.
I have started back to work from home. Now I use the Internet to supplement my income. My web based business are the way of the future.
I have a free website for personal use. Go to: http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html for a free personal website. If I can do this, then you can too!
Then I set up a free business website. This is just the start of my Internet business.
The reason that I blog about this to seniors is the future looks glum. The election of 2008 needs change. I feel that change can only help me. More of the same and I am not sure how my new business will do.
I need the Internet to earn enough money to avoid working as a greeter at Wallmart. Every time I see my fellow seniors working there, I want to scream. There is nothing the matter with work. I was union for 35 years. It's just working for minimum wage for seniors kills me.
If only one person gets a free website from: http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html then I will be happier.
Friday, August 29, 2008
Social Security
That would be the time for me to make this move.
I plan to get a copy of Social Security form 521 and keep it updated. I want to be aware of all of the ways to increase income.
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Reapply for Social Security-Form 521
Well, Carol has heard that if you want to repay Social Security all of the money you have received to date, that you can reapply and get a larger monthly payment. When you take the payments at 62, I had believed that was it for the rest of your life.
Now, I find out that Social Security form 521 (Request for With drawl of Application) permits you to:
1.Repay the Social Security retirement and other family benefits received on your earnings record with no interest required and no adjustment for inflation
2.Reapply for benefits from scratch & deduct the repayment on your income taxes or take a tax credit for the taxes you paid in the past on the Social Security benefits you received in the past
Not knowing about this possibility that the Social Security 521 form can bring, leaves a huge gap in our financial planning.
This is a complicated issue. I have a website here which I am adding to my post. I plan to keep adding this issue once a month.
Reapply for Social Security
Raise Your Living Standard
Peter and Kate are 70 year-old retirees. They have $200,000 in regular assets and $200,000 each in retirement accounts. They invest all these regular and retirement account assets in safe assets yielding 3 percent after inflation. Peter and Kate will each receive $13,250 this year in Social Security retirement benefits.
Peter and Kate are happy, yet sad; they’re kicking themselves for taking Social Security early. Had they waited until now to apply, they’d each be eligible for $20,693 per year their full retirement benefit adjusted by Social Security’s Delayed Retirement Credit; i.e., they’d be receiving 56.2 percent more in real Social Security benefits this year and every year they live into the future.
Recently, Kate read Janet Novacks article in Forbes Retirement Guide about a little-know option reapplying for Social Security. As Novack relates, Social Security form 521 (Request for Withdrawal of Application) permits you to a) repay the Social Security retirement and other family benefits received on your earnings record with no interest required and no adjustment for inflation and b) reapply for benefits from scratch. Better still, you can deduct the repayment on your income taxes or take a tax credit for the taxes you paid in the past on the Social Security benefits you received in the past.
When we ran Peter and Kate through ESPlanner we found that repaying and reapplying raised their living standard – their sustainable consumption expenditure -- by 21.7 percent notwithstanding their each having to repay $94,556! How else could Peter and Kate raise their living standard by 21.7 percent? Well, they could find $220,000 lying on the street. With $420,000 in regular assets rather than $200,000 they’d be able to sustain the same living standard through age 100 as simply repaying and reapplying for Social Security -- something that will take them all of an hour.
How much one gains from repaying and reapplying for Social Security is sensitive to one’s circumstances. In Peter’s and Kate’s case, were they to have zero retirement account assets, their living standard gain would be 29.0 percent!
What Age Groups Stand to Gain from Repaying and Reapplying?The table below considers how Peter and Kate would fare from repaying and reapplying for different current ages. The results for age 70 are those just discussed. The results for the other assumed initial ages indicate that households ranging from their mid 60s to mid 70s may gain significantly from this option. For example, if Peter and Kate are 76 years old, their sustainable increase in consumption spending is 8.9 percent. This is smaller than the 21.7 percent gain they’d enjoy were they 70 years old because they have to pay back more benefits and have fewer years remaining (to their maximum ages of life of 100) to enjoy the higher benefits. Still, enjoying a permanent 8.9 percent living standard rise for essentially no effort is a major opportunity for the 76 year-old Peter and Kate.
Beats Buying a Commercial AnnuityThe $94,556 payment can be viewed as the price of buying from Social Security an annual inflation-indexed annuity of $7,443 ($20,693 less $13,250). The best priced inflation-indexed annuity on the market is offered by The Principal Insurance Co. via www.elmannuity.com. Buying an $7,443 annuity from The Principal would cost about 40 percent more. Were Peter and Kate to each purchase annuities paying $7,443 after inflation, they’d enjoy a 10 percent higher living standard. This shows two things: buying inflation-indexed annuities from a reliable low-cost provider can raise ones living standard. But buying such annuities from the safest and lowest cost provider, namely, Social Security, can raise one’s living standard by a lot more.
Too Good To Be True?This seems too good to be true. After all, there are millions of retirees in their mid sixties to mid seventies who could potentially significantly raise their living standards by withdrawing and reapplying. Yet, from our checking with local Social Security and discussions with top Social Security officials, approving this request is routine. If you go to the office, fill out the form, hand them a check, you can then reapply on the spot and start receiving the higher benefit. Social Security’s attitude is that this is a legitimate option for people to consider and if it makes them better off financially, they should use it.
Repaying Social Security and reapplying for a higher benefit does, of course, entail risk – the risk of dying right away and not living long enough to recoup this investment. But the big risk, financially speaking, is not dying early, but dying late—living longer than one expects and, as a result, running out of money. Annuities, particularly inflation indexed annuities, are a marvelous way to hedge this very significant risk.
To read Social Security’s Handbook’s discussion of this option, go here. To download the form, go here.
Should One Take Benefits Early and Plan to Reapply? If you’re 62 and retired, should you take benefits early with the intent of repaying and reapplying at a later age? Our answer is yes, but. First, your benefits will be subject to federal income taxes depending on their level and the level of your other taxable income. However, as mentioned, according to page 15 of IRS Publication 915 you can recover such tax payments at the time you repay your benefits by either a) deducting the benefits you repay in the year you repay them (i.e., by including them with your other itemized schedule A deductions) or b) figuring out the extra taxes you paid each year in the past on the past benefits you are paying back, add them up, and taking them as a tax credit. Whichever method results in lower taxes is the one you get to use. You'll lose interest on the tax payments, but that's not likely to outweigh the considerable advantage of repaying past benefits and then reapplying for a higher annual benefit. So taxes are not a reason to avoid taking benefits early and then planning to repay and reapply, say, at age 70.
The real question here is whether the government will decide to close down or make more costly the option of repaying and reapplying before you have a chance to do so. So far our discussions with the Social Security Administrations suggests that Social Security itself is only too happy to maintain this policy if it can provide retirees with a higher living standard. On the other hand, if Social Security starts getting hundreds of thousands of requests to repay and reapply, it may start to realize that not requiring repayers to pay back with interest, let alone actuarial interest (which is what should be charged), is costing the government money. At that point, someone in Congress may move to close down this option or require that repayment include actuarial interest charges (which are higher than regular interest charges). Assuming the option remains in place in its current form, you can use ESPlanner (see this forum topic) to determine the advantage of taking benefits at 62 and then repaying and reapplying at 70 compared to, for example, simply waiting until 70 to take benefits. If you do decide to take benefits early with the intent of repaying and reapplying, we recommend you fill out, but not file, a separate tax return each year that does not include your Social Security benefits. The difference in taxes on this extra return and the actual return you file represents the extra tax payments you'll be able to recover as a tax credit when you ultimately repay and reapply. Keeping your past actual tax returns and these annual alternative returns will provide you with documentation to substantiate the tax credit.
The Gain from Taking Benefits at 62 and Repaying and Reapplying at 70We’ve also calculated for Peter and Kate, assuming they are now age 62, the gains with respect to sustainable consumption of taking their benefits at age 62 and then at age 70, repaying them and reapplying for higher benefits. In these calculations we’ve permitted Peter and Kate to borrow as needed to smooth their living standard. Taking their benefits at age 62 and never repaying entails a sustainable consumption level of $50,410. Taking their benefits starting at age 70 offers an 11.8 percent higher level of sustainable spending. But taking them early – at age 62 – and then repaying and reapplying at 70 offers an even better deal – a 15.8 percent higher sustainable spending level than simply taking benefits at age 62.
Calculations based on ESPlanner (www.esplanner.com). Illustration assumes a married couple living in Massachusetts with $200,000 in regular assets. Each spouse has $200,000 in a 401(k) account. Maximum age of life is 100. Couple has a $300,000 home with $3,000 in annual property taxes, $1,000 in home owners expense, and $1,000 in annual home maintenance expense. Couple is enrolled in Medicare and pays Part B premiums, assumed to rise at a 4.6 percent real rate each year. Couple earns 3 percent after inflation on its assets, including its retirement accounts.
1. “The 62/70 Solution,” Forbes Retirement Guide, November 11, 2007.
2. The Social Security Administration has to approve the application and requires applicants to provide a reason for the request. The form let’s you check off one of two boxes as the reason. The first is “I intend to continue working.” The second is “Other.” If you check “Other” you need to provide a reason in the space below the box.
3. Read Social Security’s Handbook’s discussion of this option here. Download the form here.
SEE: http://www.esplanner.com/Case%20Studies/double_dip/double_dip.htm
Reducing Digital Pictures.
Does any one know how to do this easily? I need a website that can make this easier for me.
Like, I need step one do this, step two do that etc.
There must be a good site that can help me learn how to reduce the size of digital pictures. What do you use?
I hear a lot of use this site. I get there and get confused. I know there is a trick to reducing the picture size.
The trouble with learning new digital picture sizes is old habits. I had a dark room when old black and white film was used. Now, I'm not sure if there is even black and white film used any where.
With all of the things to learn on a computer, I have fallen behind in using the digital photo possibilities. I want to go to a class where I can actually ask a question of a teacher untill I understand the answer.
I plan to start a free web page with photos for my family as soon as I can using http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html
Monday, August 25, 2008
Family Tree
The first search yielded three million hits. So I called mom for additional information. She found middle initial. Bingo, in the 1930 blue book of New York Society, I found a listing for his mother and two sons from Scarsdale.
Searching high and low for her friend that is the only item for him. I could not even find a family tree site. Mom had lost touch with him in 1950. So I searched for his brother. I found nothing for that name but plenty for his possible son a junior.
Bored, I decided to search for mother. Her name is uncommon Antoinette Coon Dunlevy. I found relatives from her father’s side of the family looking for her. I found several family tree sites with her information and mine too.
Now, I am hooked up with several locating family and friends sites. It is fun and I am going to use a free web site http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html to get my parents family tree branches listed.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Internet
So okay this takes time. At my age I hear the clock ticking very loudly. My achievements are good but I want great.
First do this! Then do that! Then do this again and soon you will be there! I am there lost in the world wide web!
I must say that in spite of frustrations, I sold 4 things on ebay today. Now once I subtract all of the expenses and all of the hours I have put in, I'm working for peanuts. Now if I double or triple my efforts and get better successes maybe I'll be working for $$$. One can only hope.
I am an optimistic person, so I believe that I will succeed! Time will tell tick tock..
I am revising all of my web sites one page at a time. I love my websites! I love giving Free web sites to my friends and anyone who wants them.
My personal website for pictures is great. My business websites are growing.
Try a Free website go to: http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Computer Websites
Remember typing a required research paper with carbon copy and white out? What the kids of today will miss! With the computer a back space removes the typo. A spell check corrects words that are incorrectly spelled. Spell check is the single most computer element that has changed my life. Now, I can breathe easy when writing. Hoverer, there are times that the spell check can not help me because the word is so very incorrectly spelled.
The home computer has changed the way education, communication and business is conducted and we will never go back to the old ways.
Now I have blogs and sell on ebay and websites. I am a webmaster. I will be at my home computer the day that I die.
If you want your own web site or website, (I love the optional choice of spellings), I have a free website for you at: http://www.gotogails.com/new371934.html I have a personal website and a business website. The most amazing things have happened to me since I now work on the Internet! In stead of feeling old that the world has passed me by, I am now connected to the world wide web!
The home computer has changed the way education, communication and business is conducted and we will never go back to the old ways.
A personal web site allows you to keep in touch with family and friends. The home computer makes it easy to have pictures and letters sent to all contacts at once. A personal website can be used to promote an idea and product.
A business web site promotes you and your business, your products and your ideas.
Once I was afraid to even use a computer not now!!! Try a free web site there is no obligation and your life may be more fulfilled!
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Vacation at Long Beach Island, New Jersey
Johnny Cash Night at Long Beach!
Sue and Joe are fans!
As fans of Johnny Cash, the men wore Cash shirts while watching a PBS Cash special.
Jason and Tim Cash Fans!
Monday, August 11, 2008
Summer is almost over!
Monday, July 28, 2008
Vacations
Even more stressful is a vacation with family. Some one is not happy with something. Even the choice of dinner meals can cause havoc.
The joy of seeing the family in the end wins out over no family vacation!
Here was a nightmare vacation for me.
How to prevent a FREE vacation nightmare!
While working for a company that was owned by a conglomerate, special deals were offered to the employees of all the jointly held companies. That was how a lowly production manager of a plastic plant was offered among other things, 50% off rooms at Motel 6, a buy one get one free meal at Fishes' Big Boy all of the time and land in Florida with nothing down and full ownership of the land in 10 years. What a deal!
Every executive in the company had one or two lots. How could you pass it up? Some were even building houses. Such a deal. Pay on the land for only two years and you could trade for a house on developed land.
So of course when the salesman came to our humble abode to excite us about land ownership, how could we refuse? The deal included a FREE Vacation!
The sales pitch said buy this land now site unseen and you will get a Free vacation of five days and four nights, two rounds of golf, 2 meals a day and a travel allowance of $200.00. Now, if you want to see the land first, you get only 3 days and 2 nights FREE, no golf or meals and no travel allowance. He had a map of the lots that had 10year options. We found the neatest lot with green space behind (swamp) and a golf club near the addition.
Such a deal! We were poor. Only married a year and living in New Jersey with our collective 6 children. How could we go wrong? FREE! If we planned correctly, arranged for the children to be with their mother (his two) and their father (my four), got work time off we could be alone for a FREE vacation.
So one day in July, we drop children off and head south from northern New Jersey. With our discount at Motel 6, we would only need one night in a motel. Ok, not quite FREE. So we drove on Saturday until 10 pm. We were in Georgia and only had to get to South of Tampa on Sunday.
Tampa is far from Georgia. We arrived just in time to get our vouchers for the room, food, golf and travel. Ok, FREE. The builder owned the motel. The meals were at the motel. The golf was at their club. But we were in Florida on a FREE vacation!
One little requirement, we had to attend one little hour speech about building a house in paradise and take a tour of our land and some sites avaible for trade in now.
They loved folks living in the northeast area where houses cost 3,4 and even 5 times what they had to offer-big fish on a little hook. What dream homes we saw! What bargains! New ones, on golfcourses, swimming pools and club house a dream we could have by signing on the dotted line.
Oh wow!
What these folks did not know and we did not say was that we had no more money, so we were real lookie-lous. I'm sure they figured it out and left us alone after the trip down Park Place Lane.
We drove down streets with scrub palms and sand and few houses until the road ended. The salesman consulted his map, pointed to the swamp and said that Park Place Estates would be ready in 8 years before our land was paid. Of course, we could trade it in now for a build ready lot over at Marvin Gardens.
So that was mostly all we could do on Monday. Tuesday was golf day. Wednesday the ocean called. Thursday we checked out of the room and got in another FREE round of golf. So, we left for home at 3:00 pm.
So you ask yourself what vacation nightmare is this?
We had planned most the trip together, the childcare, the days off, the time in Florida but we did not plan the trip home. I felt we could get home on Sunday at 9:00 pm the last possible moment. In my mind I saw Charleston S.C., Williamsburg, Virginia, and any town along the way. I had maps and sights to see all lined up on my lap.
He felt we could be home Friday by 10:00 pm or so by driving straight through the night and all day Friday.
Now we are in the car driving, and I say here's the road to Jacksonville. As we sail by, I said the next good place is Hilton Head. No comment. We speed past that exit. Now it is really dark and 10:00 pm. He looks at me and says what's the matter? I inquired when are we stopping? It was then that I learned we were driving through.
The steam was pouring out of my head. Had I mentioned that I do not play golf? He had a perfect time and I sat around the pool. Did I mention July in Florida? We were all the way past the Myrtle Beach exit when he realized that I was steaming.
So this dense but not stupid man says hey we'll stop at South of the Border. Up and down I-95 you see signs for South of the Border just 200, 150, 75, 25, 15, 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, miles to Pedro's South of the Border. As you pass by, signs say you just missed South of the Border. It is the largest tourist trap that I have ever seen. It is just south of the North Carolina State Line. For some unknown reason, there is no north of the border.
But there was a Motel 6 with a room for special guests like us with our discount. We had breakfast at the restaurant witha huge sombrero on top. I was only mumbling an occasional ok.
We were in the car with the radio on not speaking, when a miracle occurred. The station was offering vacation advice. Are you still speaking after your vacation? What went wrong? Let us give you some tips. At that we broke up giggling then laughing then kissing.
He says we'll go to Williamsburg. I say let's get home. Now we disagree about what to do in reverse. At this point I was tired and said that I just wanted my bed not another Motel 6. That won the argument-the idea of a bed that didn't sag and sheets that didn't scratch. We could not wait.
Still not a disaster. Just wait. Why am I complaining?
One Sunday three years after our FREE vacation, we were watching 60 Minutes. General Development, the company from which we were buying our paradise lot, was the feature story.
The three owners were on the way to jail. They swindled thousands of people mostly from the northeast out of millions of dollars. The planned communities had started out in good faith.
There are 5 or 6 communities limping along. But as the companies grew, so did greed. Houses were sold that were shoddy. Land sold were swamps too difficult to clear. And promises and hearts were broken.
Our FREE vacation wound up costing $10,000. Class action law suits secured pennies of the loss. The hardest hit folks had bought homes that were falling apart due to cheep construction.
So my advice to you is avoid at all costs the FREE vacation. Somewhere down the line you will pay and pay dearly!
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Choose Peace
In Indianapolis, Indiana, the horrible homicide rate has become unbearable. Children and families are suffering and injured while sitting in their homes or front porch. Drive by shoot outs and gun battles are hurting and killing way too many people. By spreading "Choose Peace", we can make a change.
The group is new and hopes to spread to help take back neighborhoods and cities. It is one person at a time, talking to another person and spreading the word. Choose Peace and hope will return.
Go To: http://www.decidetochoose.com for more information.
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Retirement Savings
The price of food is reducing my retirement plan. The cost of all produce has increased from 5 to 10%. My social security payment is not going as far as it did two years ago.
My blog on coupons is helping cut costs. My blog is: http://wwwcoupons101.blogspot.com
I am following the advice that I give others.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Home Health Care Costs or Nursing Home Care Costs
Once you have exhausted all of the loved ones funds, what choices do you have?
This is issue is going to face at least 50% of us. Unless you have tremendous finincal means, the costs of care cam wipe out entire savings plans.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Elvis The King!
We were living in New Orleans and Elvis spent time there and was popular. Jail House Rock opens with a skyline view of the city.
A year before he died, Elvis played the field house at Indiana University. My sister Carol was a student and arranged for two tickets to the show. My sister Kathy went with me to the show. Kathy had never been a fan of Elvis. Half way through the show she turned to me and said wow this is fun!
Just a little more than a year later, Elvis died.
A year ago, I went to Graceland. Elvis is buried there. It was a great comfort to see how Graceland would have been the place where he could find peace.
I still miss Elvis.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Barack Obama
Thursday, July 10, 2008
John F. Kennedy
At that time, I was a junior at Shortridge High School. My parents were active in the Indiana Democratic Party. There would be a parade from the Wier Cook Airport to the Claypool Hotel in downtown Indianapolis. Later, Kennedy would give a speech at the Indiana State Fair Coliseum.
As one of the few students at Shortridge identified as a Democrat, I was asked to be in the motorcade. We wore white blouses, blue skirts and sat on the back of some one's convertible. We were given those silly white hats to wear and Kennedy posters to wave. Also, this is big, we sang "Happy Days are Here Again".
The cars were lined up on the tarmac and as Kennedy left the plane we cheered. The route of the motorcade had been published in the papers, so there were crowds from the airport to down town.
I can close my eyes and see the whole day replay in my mind. It was such an innocent time compared to political campaigns today.
Back at home, my parents were getting ready to stand on 38th Street near the entrance to the fairgrounds to watch Kennedy drive by. Then we entered the coliseum and watched the speech.
We sat in the sixth row on the left side of the stage. There are old films of this event that I have seen quite a while ago. The speech was pure Kennedy. The reception huge. I think all 30,000 of the state's Democrats were there.
These events seem such a long time ago and yet just yesterday.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
My Dog Coco Puff Poodle
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Alzheimer's Costs
1.$91 billion Medicare costs for Alzheimer's and dementia care in 2005.
2. $189 billion projected Medicare costs for Alzheimer's and dementia care by 2015.
3. 60.9 average age of an unpaid caregiver in 2005.
As we are 60 plus these are going to be hard times for a lot of us. Alzheimer's will be a part of our lives one way or another.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Saint Joan of Arc Grade School
Saint Joan of Arc Grade School Indianapolis Indiana
My family arrived in Indianapolis, Indiana May4, 1957. We had lived in the south for over 5 years.
Of course since the school year was not over, Dad enrolled us in the near by Catholic School. We were lucky since Saint Joan of Arc Grade School was one of the best grade schools. It created quite a stir at the school when 4 sisters all blond and suntanned (no one used sun block back then), show up.
I was in 7th grade, Kathy 5th, Mary 3rd and Joan kindergarden. We were freezing and in sweaters, while the other students thougt it was warm and in shirt sleeves.
My Saint Joan of Arc graduating class celebrates a 50 year reunion this July. I was startled to get an invitation except for one thing. The school has fund raisers for various reasons and manages to track down graduates. The Catholic families of those days were huge. We were only six children while 12, 13 and even 16 children were common. So if a Dunlevy (my maiden name) was in a class so was a Quinn, Chrapla, Feeny, Quiser and so on.
My family moved out of the Saint Joan of Arc Parish in 1962 but the parish is still part of our lives. Friends are buried from the wonderful church, weddings take place there and of course the fund raises are several times a year.
If you visit Indianapolis, be sure to drive by Saint Joan of Arc Church at 42nd and Central.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Alzheimer's Disease
The signs of Alzheimer's disease start slowly-name forgetting, losing direction, failing judgement and other incidents of mind wanderings. When the person with Alzheimer's no longer recognizes loved ones, mixes up children and looks for friends and family long gone, the Alzheimer's has taken over and the emotional and financial costs set in.
The article says the nation isn't ready for the costs and burdens Alzheimer's disease will bring. The numbers are huge:
10 million American baby boomers will develop Alzheimer's disease
78 million baby boomers are alive in 2008
17% of women will develop Alzheimer's if they live to 55
9% of men will develop Alzheimer's if they live to 55
I am going to add additional information in the next few weeks on Alzheimer's disease as it will be a burden on the nation and our lives for a long time.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Fourth of July
All of the anticipation seems routine these days. Baseball games have fireworks for home runs. Amusement parks close down every night with fireworks. Almost any large event has fireworks.
Yet the fireworks tommorrow will be the best of the year! Happy Fourth of July!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Camping in the RV
Today, I have a RV. It has a kitchen, a bathroom, 2 bedrooms, air conditioning and 2 televisions with satellite.
It takes a Ford 350 Diesel to pull the fifth wheel. Loaded I'm camping with around 14,000 pounds of stuff.
We lived in the camper for 9 months. I loved it! Plug in the vacuum and in 10 minutes the place is clean!
I can barely remember the other style of camping. Can you?
Monday, June 23, 2008
"Pagan Babies"
In order to raise money for the missions, the grade school students were asked to bring in pennies and nickels to save a Pagan Baby. It took $10.00 to save a baby. For every $10.00 collected you got name the baby.
In most classrooms to encourage donations, the nuns pitted the boys against the girls. Least we forget, the donations were collected daily and tallied on the blackboard. I am not sure when this practice ended.
Did you ever wonder what happened to all of the "Pagan Babies"?
This Sunday at Mass a missionary priest had an answer. The missionary work by Catholic priests and nuns is allowing Catholic priests from foreign countries to pastor the priest empty parishes in America.
The work of the missionaries converted the native peoples to the Catholic Religion.
Now I had not given the "Pagan Babies" a thought in years. It is an amazing to think all of those pennies and nickels really helped the children in need. And now they are helping us!
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Vacation Nightmare!
While working for a company that was owned by a conglomerate, special deals were offered to the employees of all the jointly held companies. That was how a lowly production manager of a plastic plant was offered among other things, 50% off rooms at Motel 6, a buy one get one free meal at Fishes’ Big Boy all of the time and land in Florida with nothing down and full ownership of the land in 10 years. What a deal!
Every executive in the company had one or two lots. How could you pass it up? Some were even building houses. Such a deal. Pay on the land for only two years and you could trade for a house on developed land.
So of course when the salesman came to our humble abode to excite us about land ownership, how could we refuse? The deal included a FREE Vacation!!
The sales pitch said buy this land now site unseen and you will get a Free vacation of five days and four nights, two rounds of golf, 2 meals a day and a travel allowance of $200.00. Now, if you want to see the land first, you get only 3 days and 2 nights FREE, no golf or meals and no travel allowance. He had a map of the lots that had 10year options. We found the neatest lot with green space behind (swamp) and a golf club near the addition.
Such a deal! We were poor. Only married a year and living in New Jersey with our collective 6 children. How could we go wrong? FREE! If we planned correctly, arranged for the children to be with their mother (his two) and their father (my four), got work time off we could be alone for a FREE vacation.
So one day in July, we drop children off and head south from northern New Jersey. With our discount at Motel 6, we would only need one night in a motel. Ok, not quite FREE. So we drove on Saturday until 10 pm. We were in Georgia and only had to get to South of Tampa on Sunday.
Tampa is far from Georgia. We arrived just in time to get our vouchers for the room, food, golf and travel. Ok, FREE. The builder owned the motel. The meals were at the motel. The golf was at their club. But we were in Florida on a FREE vacation!
One little requirement, we had to attend one little hour speech about building a house in paradise and take a tour of our land and some sites avaible for trade in now.
They loved folks living in the northeast area where houses cost 3,4 and even 5 times what they had to offer-big fish on a little hook. What dream homes we saw! What bargains! New ones, on golf courses, swimming pools and club house a dream we could have by signing on the dotted line. Oh wow!
What these folks did not know and we did not say was that we had no more money, so we were real lookie-lous. I’m sure they figured it out and left us alone after the trip down Park Place Lane.
We drove down streets with scrub palms and sand and few houses until the road ended. The salesman consulted his map, pointed to the swamp and said that Park Place Estates would be ready in 8 years before our land was paid. Of course, we could trade it in now for a build ready lot over at Marvin Gardens.
So that was mostly all we could do on Monday. Tuesday was golf day. Wednesday the ocean called. Thursday we checked out of the room and got in another FREE round of golf. So, we left for home at 3:00 pm.
So you ask yourself what vacation nightmare is this?
We had planned most the trip together, the childcare, the days off, the time in Florida but we did not plan the trip home. I felt we could get home on Sunday at 9:00 pm the last possible moment. In my mind I saw Charleston S.C., Williamsburg, Virginia, and any town along the way. I had maps and sights to see all lined up on my lap.
He felt we could be home Friday by 10:00 pm or so by driving straight through the night and all day Friday.
Now we are in the car driving, and I say here’s the road to Jacksonville. As we sail by, I said the next good place is Hilton Head. No comment. We speed past that exit. Now it is really dark and 10:00 pm. He looks at me and says what’s the matter? I inquired when are we stopping? It was then that I learned we were driving through.
The steam was pouring out of my head. Had I mentioned that I do not play golf? He had a perfect time and I sat around the pool. Did I mention July in Florida? We were all the way past the Myrtle Beach exit when he realized that I was steaming.
So this dense but not stupid man says hey we’ll stop at South of the Border. Up and down I-95 you see signs for South of the Border just 200, 150, 75, 25, 15, 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, miles to Pedro’s South of the Border. As you pass by, signs say you just missed South of the Border. It is the largest tourist trap that I have ever seen. It is just south of the North Carolina State Line. For some unknown reason, there is no north of the border.
But there was a Motel 6 with a room for special guests like us with our discount. We had breakfast at the restaurant with a huge sombrero on top. I was only mumbling an occasional ok.
We were in the car with the radio on not speaking, when a miracle occurred. The station was offering vacation advice. Are you still speaking after your vacation? What went wrong? Let us give you some tips. At that we broke up giggling then laughing then kissing.
He says we’ll go to Williamsburg. I say let’s get home. Now we disagree about what to do in reverse. At this point I was tired and said that I just wanted my bed not another Motel 6. That won the argument-the idea of a bed that didn’t sag and sheets that didn’t scratch. We could not wait.
Still not a disaster. Just wait. Why am I complaining?
One Sunday three years after our FREE vacation, we were watching 60 Minutes. General Development, the company from which we were buying our paradise lot, was the feature story. The three owners were on the way to jail. They swindled thousands of people mostly from the northeast out of millions of dollars. The planned communities had started out in good faith. There are 5 or 6 communities limping along.
But as the companies grew, so did greed. Houses were sold that were shoddy. Land sold were swamps too difficult to clear. And promises and hearts were broken.
Our FREE vacation wound up costing $10,000. Class action law suits secured pennies of the loss. The hardest hit folks had bought homes that were falling apart due to cheep construction.
So my advice to you is avoid at all costs the FREE vacation. Somewhere down the line you will pay and pay dearly!
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Atom Bomb Safety Commercials 1950's
Our government had public service announcements on atom bomb attacks on television in the 1950's and 60's. I'm not sure if anyone believed that these tactics would work. As a child in school in addition to fire drills, we had atom bomb drills.
A practice siren would go off and then the atom bomb drill would begin. I close my eyes and can see a scared second grader hiding under her desk at school. I practiced at home hiding behind the sofa.
On television around 10 years after the atomic bomb attack on Japan, a show featured some of the survivors. They had horrible burns and were covered with scarves and some shown only from behind a screen.
As the years have passed many studies have been made on the atomic bomb survivors. Radiation has many horrible long term affects including cancers and birth defects.
Of course then we built air raid shelters and at home bomb shelters. As if they would have helped any of us.
I must say the world is crazy when war is still waged and the risk of the bomb remains possible.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Jacks a Playground Game for Children
There were various games to play the game of jacks but the basic one was easiest. Always using only one hand, on the first round, you pick up one jack-onesies. On the second round, you pick up two jacks-twosies.
Jacks can be played with any number of players. The best part for me was that I could practice by myself. I always won. I always cheated.
Jacks is a game that I passed on to my children. I miss seeing the children of today on the sidewalk playing jacks.
Next time I go to the store, I'm purchasing several packs of jacks for the grandchildren!
Monday, June 16, 2008
I Like Ike!
My parents were Roosevelt Democrats and rooting for Stevenson. On the playground, kids would say, "Who do you like?" If you did not say, "I like Ike!" You would receive a punch in the arm.
I was a chicken and said, "I like Ike!" Political intimidation even at an early age. To think times have not changed all that much.
We have a letter from the Illinois Governor's office from Adlai Stevenson, thanking my parents for their support.
Now another election is due in November. I dare to think what those adult classmates of mine would say now.
A funny footnote to Ike's election happened when the I Like Ike scarves were on sale for $.25. Mother always looking for a bargain, purchased 4 of them. They were red or blue with election like buttons saying I Like Ike in each button. Lovely.
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Flag Day and Happy Birthday Day to Me!
A little known fact about Flag Day happened on June 14, 1944. On that day in a White Plains, New York hospital, I was born. The first child of Jerry and Antoinette Dunlevy, I was born weighing 6 pounds 14 ounces at 6:14 am. These facts are special only to my family and me.
The more important facts about Flag Day begin when the Second Continental Congress acting on a resolution adopted the Stars and Stripes as the flag of the United of America.
It is difficult in this busy world to celebrate another event. The flag represents patriotism and pride in our country. As another day in June sandwiched between Memorial Day, Father's Day and the Fourth of July, June 14th has never been celebrated as a great national holiday. But on June 14th, many families, businesses and communities fly the flag in honor.
All Americans are urged to fly the American Flag during the week of June 14th. Some communities hold parades but many more decorate the town with the Stars and Stripes.
When Americans recite the Pledge of Allegiance and sing the National Anthem, the flag is honored in a special way and more often remembered than it would be on one huge holiday.
When I turned 6 years-old in 1950, I was visiting my grandmother in West Palm Beach, Florida. The town had a picnic and fireworks to honor Flag Day. My grandmother took me around and told everyone the party was for my birthday also.
In the fifth grade the teacher asked, "Who knows what happens on June 14th?" No one raised their hand which was simply too puzzling to me. I of course finally raised my hand and was called upon and replied, "June 14th is Flag Day." The teacher then asked me how I knew that and I informed her that it was also my birthday.
I have often wondered how it would be to share a birthday with a huge holiday. I have always felt special having June 14th as a birthday.
I almost always fly the flag at my house. I currently have a flagpole as a gift from my children for my 60th birthday. At least once a year, I purchase a new flag for the pole.
My dad a Marine died December 11, 2007 and the American Flag draped his coffin. I feel a special pride when I see the Stars and Stripes on a solders coffin. My mother took Dad's folded America Flag and put it in the flag box. She has only one son so my brother has the flag at his home.
Any American can request one of the American Flags that fly over the United States Capitol. A request to your House or Senate Member will start the process. The site: http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/se nators_cfm.cfm obtains the U.S. Senators. http://www.house.gov/house/MemberWWW_by_State.shtm l for representatives.
Happy Birthday American Flag.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Jump Rope
My sisters and I loved jumping rope and we knew lots of rhymes to chant while jumping. Now when playing with family memebers, fairness was an issue. How long one turned the rope while the other jumped was always in dispute. Nothing was more frustating than one sister jumping alot and then quiting before her turn turning the rope.
When my grandchild was born, I wanted to teach her the chants for skipping rope. There are books one containing Miss Mary Mack a clapping game also used as a jump rope for sale. I have found them at Amazon.com.
For years now I have yet to see kids after school or on summer break jumping rope. The kids are on motor powered scooters and bikes. They are not even out side playing tag, hop scotch or any group fun games. We wonder why the kids today are fluffy.
Jump rope any one. At our 50th high school reuinions, wouldn't it be fun to see us jump rope? Maybe not!
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Saddle Shoes and Bobby Sock
To go with the saddle shoes, white cuffed ankle socks were worn-bobby socks. My legs were so skinny that the socks would creep down into my shoes. Over time, I spent hours pulling up the bobby socks.
In 1961 as a junior in high school, I had my first pair of loafers. I never again wore saddle shoes.
Does any one wear saddle shoes now?
Monday, June 9, 2008
School's Out
School's out, school's out the teacher wore her _______ out!
Do kids still say that?
Friday, June 6, 2008
My Sister Kathy
As a child Kathy always knew what she wanted. If her crayon broke, she managed to swap for my unbroken one. If she wanted to know where the Christmas presents were hidden, she'd cajole me into helping her look for them. If her room was messy (it still is), she'd make me help clean it up or we would not get to go to the movies.
Kathy is a natural leader. At preschool graduation, there is a picture of Kathy showing fellow grads how to stand in line. She managed to keep my quiet-not too interested in mingling self included with her friends.
Kathy had a successful career with AT&T where she managed large numbers of employees. She could sell telephone services to a company that did not know they had a need.
Whenever I am down, Kathy picks me up. She unselfishly helps our parents, her friends and neighbors. I miss her everyday but thank you Mr. Bell for your wonderful telephone invention.
Sunday is Kathy's birthday. I have her card on my desk in Ohio and she is in California. So the post office will make extra money if the card is to be on time.
I am starting today thankful for my sister and my best friend.
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Mickey Mantle Number 7 New York Yankee
1. Born and raised in White Plains, New York a mere train ride to the Bronx, my mother was raised as a Yankee fan. She remembers Babe Ruth and all of the old time greats of the 30's and 40's. She recalls taking the train with her brother, meeting my grandfather from work (in those days a work week included Saturday Mornings) and going to the afternoon games.
2. Television was new and not common. Hoverer, our new Levittown house came with a built in television. And amazingly the New York Yankee games were televised.
Every time my mother cheered, I stopped to see what happened. At this time I was only 7 years old so mother's team became my team. Mom's heroes became my heroes. And she fell deeply in baseball lust over the Mick.
Mother always has deep, strong, unwavering and loyalty to her heroes-Roosevelt, Kennedy, Obama, Yankees then Reds then Braves, Palmer, Michelson then John Daley, and so on. She acknowledges their faults but only after absolute proof. Then she cries over all of their follies. She would say how young and good looking Mickey was and could he hit the ball.
So, I made a Mickey Mantle scrapbook. I watched Saturday Baseball Game of the Week in New Orleans (not on daily down there or any where else) and followed his every career move.
In person, I only saw Mickey Mantle on the field in uniform once. It was an old timers game in Pittsburgh around 1970. My seat was on the first base side in the top tier but we were in the same air. He played first base and had a stiff walk.
I saw him again at Yankee Stadium opening day game. 1985. He was reinstated into baseball after a rude suspended by Commissioner Bowie Kuhn. Mickey needed money so he worked for the Claridge Resort Casino. He had not been paid for his baseball playing career the way today's players are paid. Peter Ueberroth became commissioner and fixed the unfair mess. The cheers in the stands when Mickey Mantle took the field lasted many minutes. I cried and cheered.
One day while reading the Newark Star Ledger, I got an invitation to finally meet Mickey Mantle. It was about time! He was making an appearance to promote his book The Mick at a housing development in New Jersey about 50 miles from my home.
My husband said that he did not wish to go with me to watch me drool over another man. I had a great framed picture on the wall by my bed of Mickey Mantle when I met Charlie. He had advised me once we married that he really disliked watching me wake up and smile at Mickey's picture. Of course, I moved it the my Mickey Mantle wall in the basement.
None of the children wanted to waste a Saturday driving with me to see an old man. Only, my old dog Bubba went with me. Bubba would go any where any time.
The day was gray and snowing. The car was slipping all over the traffic lanes. I should have turned around and headed home. But I didn't.
There was a crowd at the clubhouse with all kinds of things for Mickey to sign. I found a seat in the fourth row and waited. When he entered the room, tears pooled in my eyes. He could hardly sit down. His knees were in bad shape. The announcer said that Mickey would speak for a few minutes and than sign one item for each person present.
Mickey was a funny man. He thanked everyone for coming and then told a story. It is one he told many times but was still funny.
"One day, Billy Martin was staying with me in Texas and wanted to go hunting. I have a good friend with a ranch and he had issued an open invitation to hunt on his grounds when ever I wanted.
So we get our guns, get the truck and drive out to the ranch. I parked and told Billy that I just wanted to let my friend know that we are here.
My friend came to the door and said of course you may hunt today. But Mickey would you do me a huge favor. See that old horse over there. He needs to be put down and since you have a gun would you do it for me?
Gee I had protested do I have to? Mickey it would be a great favor. I love that horse and hate to do it myself. So I agreed.
On the way back to the car, I decided to play a trick on Billy. When I got to the car, I told Billy that that mean rancher refused to let us hunt on his grounds. I am going to get back at him and shoot his horse give me my gun. Billy said no Mickey you don't want to do that. I told him oh, yes I do!
We argued for a few moments and I took the gun, walked over to the horse and shot him.
In the next seconds, I heard pop, pop, pop. I turned and looked and Billy shouted look Mick, I got us 2 more.
The joke wound up being on me after I reimbursed the rancher for the two dead horses."
Then a line formed with each person holding several items to be signed. I was amazed but one person told me that these people show up all the time to get an autograph and then sell it for the money.
I held back and got into the end of the line. I had my Mickey Mantle Scrapbook with me along with a program from 1965 Mickey Mantle Family Day Yankee Program. When it was my turn, I told Mickey that I brought my scrapbook with me. He said lets look at it and we did.
The page open with a picture of Mickey Mantle's leg wrapped in a bandage and a package on his lap. I told him that the picture had been in the New Orleans newspaper and a fan had sent him the present.
He looked a me kind of funny. I have heard him say that a times he was surprised that fans knew so much about him. Then he asked what did I want signed. I really just wanted to shake his hand but I gave him the program.
While he was signing the program, I told him thank you and how much I enjoyed meeting him. He reached out his hand for me to shake.
Well, I can still see him and hear his voice.
Driving in the car on December25, 1989, we heard that Billy Martin was killed in a car crash. I cried who is going to tell Mickey?
I have the program from Mickey Mantle's funeral. A friend of my sister was his friend and brought a copy for me.
I miss him as do most baseball fans who watched him hit a homer. My ebay name is mickeyg7714. I was called Mickey for years by close friends. I still miss him.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Ricky Nelson The Son of Ozzie and Harriet Nelson
The show starred the entire family especially Ricky Nelson. He was the most adorable of the two sons. David resembled his dad, while Ricky had the fine features of his mother. I fell instantly in love with him. He was only four years older than my 8 years.
Now the show was on at 8:00 pm in Miami. My bed time was 7:00 pm (until I was in high school when my dear dad suggested to mom it might be okay to let me stay up longer). In order to get to watch the show, Mom made me a deal. I would go to bed with the others and she would come wake me up for the show. It was a special time that we shared and I will always remember it fondly.
I adored Ricky and followed his career. In August 1958, Ricky Nelson played at the Indianapolis State Fair Coliseum. It was the first concert that I attended. I was in the third row. Ricky was only 18 and just launching his vocal career. He sang on the television show several times and after a while the show always ended with Ricky singing a song.
I''m not sure why it is that so many of our special singers die in plane crashes. I know they use planes that are often not expensive and seem not to be maintained. When Ricky Nelson died in a plane crash on December 31, 1985, he was only 45. Just thinking about it makes me so sad.
I watch NCIS all of the time and have always felt that his brother-in-law Mark Harmon has the same fine facial features of Ricky. I believe that I will go play my Ricky Nelson CD now.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Opa Locka Miami, FL
It was then that Opa Locka Marine Air Base Miami Florida would for ever be a part of our lives. In 1952, Miami was a wide open town. The world did not have total air conditioning.
Think about it: Cars without air conditioning-hot, houses without air conditioning-muggy, offices without air conditioning-stifling. I wonder what the hotels had ocean breezes? I remember my father leaning out of a two story military base building waving at us.
As an officer, we had the Officer's Club Pool for our use. To beat the heat, we spent every hour possible there swimming and playing.
Along with his other duties, Dad was in charge of the Brigg. I remember getting my fingerprints taken for fun. I wonder if they went anywhere or were just thrown out. One day a soldier went AWOL in the middle of the night. Dad had to lead the chase to capture him.
Dad and his fellow Opa Locka Marines were the head of the first Orange Bowl Parade. Just a simple parade by today's standards but still a thrill.
Mom was active in the Officer Wives' Club. Ed McMahon was stationed at Opa Locka at the same time. Mom was in a play that he directed. I went to a dress rehearsal and saw my mother run across the stage waving a bra. I can still hear all the laughter from the shenanigans.
Dad was promoted to Major and mom had two babies while we lived there. I loved walking with Dad and seeing everyone salute him.
One incident still plays over and over in my mind. We were on Opa Locka Base to pick up Dad after work. Mother had three children and was expecting another soon. When she stopped the car across the street from the offices, my sister Kathy only 5 and always in a hurry, dashed out of the car and headed across the street. A huge gray base bus hit her. The tire of the bus ran over the heel of her shoe crushing the shoe. Always full of spunk, she scrambled out from under the bus and avoided death. She was hurt and I was screaming.
Since the Marines are part of the Navy, she was taken by ambulance to the nearest Naval Hospital in Key West, Florida. She had a broken leg and a blood clot in the knee of her other leg. She remained in the hospital for two weeks.
One weekend, we drove down to see her. The causeway is still the same. Two miserable lanes of traffic with little shoulder and a ditch with gators after that. On the way home, the car had a flat tire. No air conditioning, no shoulder and mosquitoes think about it. Poor Dad, the bites he suffered when changing that tire.
Finally, the war was over and we left Opa Locka. Dad was discharged and we moved to New Orleans.
Dad died December 11, 2007 and in his obituary we mentioned the Opa Locka Base. Many people remembering Dad, knew some one stationed there.
Do you remember Opa Locka Marine Air Base 1952-1954?